Yahoo - How to be a better lover in six simple steps

It’s not all about the big O, people. "Let go of trying to get anywhere and instead, be present with your partner and attuned to what they want and desire in the moment," says trauma informed sexologist, Madalaine Munro.

"When you are present in the moment, instead of fixating on orgasm, it can expand the possibilities of pleasure and with practice lead to new neural pathways of pleasure."